The best way to tell with certainty that your spouse is cheating on you is to engage the services of a private investigator. However, even before you do this, there are tell-tale signs that something is not right in your relationship. To stay ahead of a cheater, here are 5 signs your spouse is cheating on you.
1. They get secretive with their phone and computer
One of the biggest signs that your spouse is cheating on you is a sudden attachment to their phones/computers. This usually indicates that they are afraid you might catch them in the act. As such, if your spouse suddenly gets defensive when you try to touch their phone, or they suddenly change their passwords, it would be time to start investigating them. Chances are that something is brewing, or they are already in a full-blown relationship with someone else.
2. A sudden change in appearance
People change their appearances all the time, and sometimes there is a good reason for it. For instance, an overweight person may change their lifestyle, in order to stay healthy. However, if the change is drastic, especially in terms of dressing and other aesthetic aspects such as their perfume, something could be brewing. There is a probability that they are doing it to please someone else. This would be enough grounds to start investigating them for possible cheating, and chances are that your suspicions could turn out to be right.
3. A sudden change in sexual behaviour
This is one of the more concrete signals that your partner is cheating. If your partner suddenly desires less sex with you, chances are that they are getting it somewhere else. On the other hand, if they want it more than usual, they could be trying hard to cover their tracks. You may also look out for sudden changes in sexual behaviours, such as an urge to try out new styles. They could be trying to bring home some of what they are doing out there. These are legitimate grounds to start checking on them and find out if they are cheating.
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4. A sudden change in friends behaviour towards you
One thing with cheating is that everyone else seems to know about it, apart from you. As such, out of guilt, friends may start to avoid you, or act funny when around you. If you notice such behaviour among your friends or your spouse’s friends, it would be best to start investigating. There is a possibility that your spouse is cheating on you, and you are the only one in their circle who doesn’t know about it.
5. A sudden increase in expenses
Infidelity is expensive. In a bid to please their hidden partner, your spouse may start to incur more expenses such as hotel bookings, and expensive road trips. If you notice receipts for such things in your partner’s credit card expenditures, it could be concrete evidence that your spouse is seeing someone else. Try and trace the reasons behind such expenditures, and chances are that your suspicions won’t be wrong. You may start by visiting some of the locations where money was spent, and get more information.